Bump, wanted to type a short note on the genre, but found this.
I've been going through a phase recently, now I listen to more slow jams. Unfortunately most of the contemporary R&B artists don't do anything for me. Trey Songz is alright, but after hearing him 15 times everyday on the radio it gets repetitive. And in all the songs, it's the same fecking formula, synthesizer pattern, drums, the initial croning, interlude, then modulation to a higher key, and then loop. I only have time for Usher nowadays.
I recently stumbled on D'Angelo's second album, "Voodoo", and it is truly a masterpiece of the "neo-soul" genre. He really took it back to the legends of funk and soul. Listening to the album, you can hear the influence such legends like Stevie Wonder, Prince, Jimi Hendrix, Marvin Gaye, James Brown, and others had on the production and song layout. His lyrics range from sexually provocative in "Untitled", the song that gets the women wet, to uplifting songs like "Africa". He struck that balance sweetly. Can someone back me up on this? I can't stress it enough, the album is a fecking masterpiece.
I also copped his first album, "Brown Sugar", and it is very good, but "Voodoo" was groundbreaking on so many levels. Unfortunately he hasn't released an album since then, although rumor says one is on the way.
Since then I became a fan of the neo soul genre. I feel it is artistically genuine, not anyone can do that type of music, and singing about sex and women on all the songs doesn't cut the grade for me.
Albums I would recommend for you (or anyone else)? Get "Voodoo" first, no doubt about that. Get Lauryn Hill's album. Look into artists like India.Arie, Jill Scott, Maxwell, Bilal, Dwele, Anthony Hamilton, and so many others. There is a lot of good soul out there.